Reasons for online dating vary widely
For those who dismiss dating technology like Tinder as solely designed for meaningless "hookups" based on nothing more than physical appearance, recent research suggests that Tinder skeptics are simply old-fashioned.A Northwestern University professor of psychology recently argued in reported this year that online daters are more likely to be actively seeking a committed relationship. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and chief scientific advisor at Match.com, said, "Online daters are serious about finding love.Some straight talk for the guys: It's still difficult as a society to get past the idea that men have to pay for everything dating-related."Men pay for dates because 100 years ago women didn't have jobs," said Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach and the author behind the audio series "Finding the One Online." Katz also has been writing online dating profiles as an e-Cyrano for thousands of lovelorn clients since 2003.Some trafficking cases start with the offender contacting the potential victims on social networking sites such as Facebook and My Space.The techniques used by the offenders to gain trust vary widely, including expressing love and admiration of the victim, promising to make the victim a star, and providing a ticket to a new location away from the victim’s home."On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog," quips one dog to another in the famous "New Yorker" cartoon by Peter Steiner.The pithy statement encapsulates the enjoyable side of Internet anonymity -- but says nothing about its dangers.
So how can one successfully online date on a budget?
Although an unbiased, outside observer would see this as a reason to suspect something, by then the victim trusts the scammer and so the money is sent.
Over time, there are more and more emergencies, more reasons for the scammer to ask for money, and soon enough the victim is broke, possibly even in debt.
More than 50 percent of singles have fantasized about a future together with someone while on a first date." Indeed, all those dates can mean major bucks for the one picking up the dinner check or wine bar tab.
Or, to put it in an actual single's terms, "Tinder? Man, you better take her for coffee and a stroll in the park, listening to street performers ...